tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post3205242511528580073..comments2023-11-02T06:49:28.353-04:00Comments on feeling stoopid: Day two.....honkeiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03517190745892738872noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-85156999743817377902010-07-03T05:24:52.301-04:002010-07-03T05:24:52.301-04:00I understand that you don't want the nutcases ...I understand that you don't want the nutcases in the world commenting and seeing your guts spilled. But you're doing a good job of clearing the air. Hang in there.Hammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00653862887946706847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-61292819385403816012010-06-27T11:35:30.144-04:002010-06-27T11:35:30.144-04:00Separating is not always a stressful or bad thing....Separating is not always a stressful or bad thing. My sister has never been happier since she split with her husband. But it doesn't always have to end in divorce. My uncle separated from my aunt a few years ago. He lived with another woman for a long time, but because she was half his age, they were not in the same places in life. Eventually my aunt and uncle missed each other so much they got back together and things have never been better. Your happiness matters man! Do what makes you happy.Martinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06428760809058039675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-47254818777865269942010-06-22T20:17:44.009-04:002010-06-22T20:17:44.009-04:00hey phil.. its doug.. you need some time off.. you...hey phil.. its doug.. you need some time off.. you still coming down here right? i see you posted something about going to see a family counselor this weekend.. so are you comming down.. c'mon man you need a little r & r!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06622128106603000774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-46269802457852268932010-06-20T05:17:51.644-04:002010-06-20T05:17:51.644-04:00Hey man, good job on it being day 2. I know it'...Hey man, good job on it being day 2. I know it's got to be hard to quit a habit that you've had for EVER. I used to smoke but quit one night after I realized I smoked a whole pack in just a few hours. Made me S-I-C-K. That was the end of that.<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear about your "separation". Communication is the problem most of the time. Not that you aren't saying what you want to say ...it's usually HOW we say it. <br />We're working on that too.<br /><br />We'll be up in NY in about a week. <br /><br />I'll be praying for you and your fight to keep everything together.~Sheila~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14141660556692992334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-75545545906134731542010-06-20T00:20:40.132-04:002010-06-20T00:20:40.132-04:00Congrats on day 2, Ken told me the hardest part wa...Congrats on day 2, Ken told me the hardest part was on the second day...he used the patch and gum, alot of gum lol<br /><br />Ken and I have been on that ledge, been up and down, alls I know is I wish he had written me notes to let me know how he felt...it sounds like a great idea, I tend to open up way more in my writing than in person...good luck :)Cariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00895342987130936870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-29980964198649931162010-06-19T00:47:34.826-04:002010-06-19T00:47:34.826-04:00I used blow pops for the oral fixation part of qui...I used blow pops for the oral fixation part of quitting. <br /><br />Healing from arguments is the hardest part, sex always helps my marriage, lol. We fight, we do it, and we are fine again.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17907217530505880375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-92004294723825781752010-06-18T16:03:50.392-04:002010-06-18T16:03:50.392-04:00Sounds like you are under a lot of stress at the m...Sounds like you are under a lot of stress at the moment, so kudos to you on day 2 :) I do hope you are able to keep it up but I think it's like giving anything up (or like my dieting) if you slip, don't beat yourself up about it just pick yourself up and start over. If you can keep doing that, you'll get there in the end.<br /><br />As for the separation, I'm sorry to hear about that but it sounds like you two are at least trying to communicate and figure things out. That's a good sign one way or the other.<br /><br />Remember, I'm always around for chatting / venting :) Oh and pls do send me an invite if you go private :)Breighhttp://www.Breigh.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12450782.post-68063603420122715052010-06-18T14:16:02.612-04:002010-06-18T14:16:02.612-04:00Woohoo wtg on day 2!! Keep it up! Have you tried g...Woohoo wtg on day 2!! Keep it up! Have you tried gum and or sunflower seeds?<br /><br />Well you guys must not be hating eachother too much since your are still sleeping in the same bed ;) although if it's a king like ours you can definitly sleep all night without touching at all. <br /><br />Only advice I have is try to shower her with attention. If she's anythig like me she'll eat it up :)Julie Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14827476441219850741noreply@blogger.com